Sunday, May 4, 2008

thanks, but no thanks

you never get used to hearing the insults, the criticisms, the unsolicited advice from strangers, neighbors, even some friends and family when you have a child with a developmental disability whom harbors emotional challenges and exhibits some behavioral difficulties. they say,"send him to our house for a week, we'll straighten him out.

alright, as far as i am concerned, we all have some form of quirk... or so called "disability."

would it be fair for me to say,"come to my house for a week, i'll fix your a.d.d., your o.c.d. or your generalized anxiety disorder?

yeah, i will get you to quit drinking and chain smoking. come to my house for a week and you'll no longer be a procrastinator, an over eater, a neat freak or a slob.....

i will tell you that if you come to our house for a week, you won't be judged, ridiculed or criticized.

you will be accepted for who and what you are despite your "disability

you too,

will be loved unconditionally....

1 comment:

SAT said...

Don't let them get to you. Most people who say things like that don't have a clue what challenges you face everyday. Just remember, they simply do not understand.
I love you!